Tuesday, May 26, 2009

ARROGANCE

He doesn’t talk to me properly, never tells me anything about him. I don’t know anything about him which I normally should know. I always wanted to be his good friend but he didn’t even let me be his friend.
He has a very helping and caring nature. If any of his friends are in trouble he tries his best to bring a smile to their faces and always considers their problem as his. He tries to solve their problem with all his heart but most probably lands himself in trouble, yet he’s always the same……
Things that he can do in a simple way, does them in a complicated way. His mind always runs in the complicated direction…… yet I always used to ask for his help though I had other options, but now things are different I always avoid to talk to him and so does he……………
I always needed his support for lots of things. I still crave for his support. If I get his little support and if ever I get a chance to be his friend I’ll be the luckiest person ever…
People normally say,
If you’ll be my friend,
You’ll never have any problem…
But I’d like to say,
If he’ll be my friend,
I’m sure I’ll never have any problem!!!
The problem with him is, he always sees the situation through his eyes (side), never tries to see it from someone else’s eyes (side),
I can prove this… The very quotes from him are:
“I don’t like talking to people who don’t listen to me……”
This shows ARROGANCE……………………… he is overbearingly confident about what he says no matter if he’s wrong…
Why should people listen to him all the time??
Why can’t anybody have their own views??
He doesn’t like people who don’t listen to him but why can’t there be people who don’t like to be forced to do something?????

If to gain his friendship, I’ll have to be forced to do a certain things, I can but for a certain period…
That too it won’t be me then……

One would always like to be themselves with friends…
What’s the use………
If I gain him………
But, at the same time
Loose myself
My individuality…………

4 comments:

  1. Good work. express ur romantic views more and u will rock.make people read in between the lines so that even they can relate to ur experience. would love to read more keep writing. BEST OF LUCK.

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  2. good piece of work rashmi.. i really liked the way the post shaped up and had a just ending.. very nice.. :)

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  3. hey rash... u must never ever lose your individuality for the sake of anyone, coz dear u r the best person by heart, by nature,n... u r just perfect... so be yourself but still try to accept him as he is... life will answer your questions it just needs some time... enjoy life the way it is...

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